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Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Inclusion


Today I get to do one of my favorite things, speak to a group of college students about Down syndrome. I absolutely love doing this because I feel like I'm speaking to Logan's future teachers, and I'm helping them to understand that Logan and his friends are, and will continue to be, wonderful students. They are in fact, beneficial to everyone in the classroom. I've read many, many studies about the importance of inclusion and I naively believed that everyone agreed with me, and had read these studies, and that inclusion would be no problem once we got into "real" school. Last night I attended a CDSPG board meeting and, as I looked around the room, almost every single parent of a school aged child had fought, or was fighting, to have their child included in a regular education class. Can you believe that?!?!?!? We have to FIGHT to have our kids learn with other kids!!! To me this is APPALLING!!!! What's even worse, and so sad to me, is that schools in Maryland, and specifically Baltimore County, are among the WORST in the country for inclusive education. Ugh, it just breaks my heart. It breaks my heart that all of my friends, and myself, are going to have to convince people to teach our kids. We have to keep doing it, over and over and over again. I wish I had the time to go to Annapolis and DC and talk to our congressmen and women, I don't right now. BUT, mark my words, I WILL fight for this,I will make it happen, I will prove that Logan and ALL of his buddies should be with everyone elses kids. We'll make it happen in this lifetime!!!
In the meantime, I'm going to keep speaking to future educators, and praying things change. If YOU want to help, check out the Maryland Coalition for Inclusive Education website: http://www.mcie.org/index.asp
And, if you're interested, I've attached an article about the Benefits of Inclusion which I got from the National Down Syndrome Society's Website.

Benefits of Inclusion

A number of studies over the years have reported the various benefits of inclusive education. In 1996, the National Down Syndrome Society published a research report on the inclusion of children with Down syndrome in general education classes1. After analyzing and comparing extensive parent and teacher questionnaires, this study found that with proper support and adequate communication between parents, teachers and professionals, inclusion is a favorable educational placement for children with Down syndrome. The study also found that the learning characteristics of students with special needs were more similar to their nondisabled peers than they were different. Moreover, teachers reported positive experiences with students with Down syndrome. They described their students as eager to learn, especially when encouraged, and reported personal satisfaction in terms of their professional achievements.

Literature documenting successful inclusion practices is significant and growing. An analysis by Baker, Wang and Walberg in 1994 concluded that “special-needs students educated in regular classes do better academically and socially than comparable students in non-inclusive settings2.” Research by Hollowood et al., (1995) found inclusion was not detrimental to students without disabilities3. In fact, a national study of inclusive education conducted in 1995 by the National Center on Educational Restructuring and Inclusion (NCERI) reported academic, behavioral and social benefits for students with and without disabilities4. The study also concluded that students within each of IDEA’s 13 categories of disability, at all levels of severity, have been effectively integrated into general education classrooms. NCERI also reported positive outcomes and high levels of professional fulfillment for teachers. A number of other studies confirming the educational and social benefits of inclusion for students with and without disabilities can be found in the reference list at the end of this publication5,6,7.

In May 2000, the Indiana Inclusion Study8 investigated the academic benefits of inclusive education for students without disabilities. This study concluded that students without disabilities who were educated in inclusive settings made significantly greater progress in math than their peers. Although their progress in reading was not significantly greater than their peers, there was a “consistent pattern” in their scores that favored educating students without disabilities in inclusive settings.

This and other research has highlighted improved academic skills, social skills, communication skills and peer relationships as four of the most important benefits of inclusion. Nondisabled students can serve as positive speech and behavior role models for those with disabilities and students with disabilities offer their nondisabled peers acceptance, tolerance, patience and friendship. As allies and friends, peers can offer support both in and out of the classroom. These findings show that everyone involved in inclusive schooling can benefit from the experience.

Monday, October 4, 2010

My Mimi

My Mimi wrote today's blog. It's so special because it's right from her heart. I will say, Logan absolutely LOVES Mimi, he's all smiles when she's around and he does always do a little dance when he sees her.

KNOWING LOGAN HAS BEEN THE MOST REWARDING HAPPENING IN MY LIFE.



EVERY TIME I SEE HIM IT BRINGS A SMILE TO MY FACE. THAT SMILE COMES FROM WITHIN



BECAUSE I LOVE THAT PRECIOUS LITTLE BOY SO MUCH. HE IS SUCH A HAPPY LITTLE



BOY, HE EVEN DANCES IN CIRCLES WHEN I AM AROUND. I FEEL GOD HAS REWARDED



EVERYONE WHO KNOWS LOGAN, HE IS SO SPECIAL. YOU AND SAM ARE WONDERFUL PARENTS



AND I THINK THAT LOGAN KNOWS THIS AND I AM SO GRATEFUL THAT HE HAS YOU AND SAM.



NOT ONLY IS HE IN MY HEART ALL THE TIME , BUT HE IS IN MY PRAYERS AS YOU AND SAM



AND THE GIRLS ARE ALWAYS. YOU ARE BLESSED TO HAVE HM, WE ALL ARE.

Sunday, October 3, 2010

Pumpkin Farm





Logan was a little "tired" at the pumpkin farm because of his soccer excursion that morning, but we still had a blast!!

Saturday, October 2, 2010

Fun Fall Saturday

Well...almost :)
This morning was filled with all sorts of Logan activities. First, he had the Young Athletes program which is an awesome program funded by Special Olympics for kids ages 2-6. It's supposed to be a structured sports type activity, but basically the kids just run around and have a good time. Logan loves YAP, as does Maddie who insisted on going with him. However, almost immediately following YAP is soccer...dun, dun, dun!! Logan HATES soccer. He dreads it. He begs us not to make him go. Why, then, do we force him to go? Because he BEGGED us to sign him up. This summer all he talked about was playing soccer, he couldn't WAIT to play soccer. With this type of excitement and enthusiasm, I signed him up for the 4-6 year old league. Big mistake. HUGE mistake. That absolutely did not go well. Those kids were hardcore, they had shin guards. They don't even make shin guards small enough for Logan :) So, I called the Y and had him switched to the 3-5 year old program (you don't need shin guards in this age group). Sam took him the next week and Logan did not seem to have a good time, he kept trying to leave. He came home, I asked him if he had fun, he said "NO" When asked why he didn't have fun, he said all that running made him hungry and thirsty.
"Fine," I said, "I'll make you lunch before you go next time." This week was next time so in between YAP and soccer, he had an apple and a bagel with peanut butter, athletes food, to give him LOTS of energy. Dan and Janet brought him 2 bottles of Gatorade to ensure that he didn't get dehydrated :) We were all set!!! The coach calls everyone to the center, gives a little pep talk, then they start their warm ups. First up, running about 50 feet to the goal and back. Logan takes off, is lookin' good, I'm thinking we've succeeded, he likes soccer!!! Then, all of a sudden, he stops halfway to the goal and plops down on the ground. What is this?!?!? Sam runs over picks him up and starts running with him, he gives it a half hearted attempt, then takes off running in the opposite direction. A few more warm ups go by, that he totally misses, then it's time to kick the ball into the goal, he DOES do this, but then comes over to take a break for "half time" (the whole practice is 30 minutes long so I'm not exactly sure we need a half time, but I go with it) Anyway, drinks about half of his Gatorade (he DOES get thirsty)then goes back out on the field. However, this time he's totally, totally checked out. He's done!! All he wants to do is leave, he wants to "go home." We make him stay, he stands around watching the other kids score goals, itches his butt a few times, picks his nose for a bit, then takes off for the tennis courts. I run after him, "where are you going?" I ask. His response, "To play tennis." Ay yi yi. "We are NOT playing tennis, kid, get back on the field and finish the soccer game." More butt scratching and nose picking. FINALLY the practice is over. Logan doesn't even stick around to high five his teammates. We get in the car and he grabs my face while I'm strapping him in to his carseat and says, "Mommmy, I do NOT like soccer." Ummmm...no kidding. I know Sam thinks he should stick this out since he wanted to do it, but I'm not sure I can handle it anymore, it's torture. I might see if I can find him a nice dance class or art class, that seems more up his alley.
The only good thing about soccer...he's FAST asleep right now :) Headed to the pumpkin farm in a bit, will post pics later tonight. Now...off to take my nap :)

Friday, October 1, 2010

Happy Down Syndrome Awareness Month


So, I've been totally stressing about doing this ever since I signed up for it last night. What the heck am I going to write about for the next 31 days? I know, I know, Logan, right? The thing is, our world doesn't actually revolve around Logan just because he has Down syndrome. To us, he's just this wonderful, sweet, lovable little boy who nicely balances out the precociousness of his little sister. He's just a part of our family. Actually, I think that's probably the point of this blog challenge, to show everyone out there, that people with Down syndrome aren't really that different. My favorite quote, "they're more alike than different" from NDSS best illustrates how I feel about my little Logi Bear :) He's so much more like Maddie than he is different. And, every day Sam and I comment about how much Georgia is LIKE Logan (really, it's amazing how much she resembles Logan in both looks and personality...THANK GOD!!)
Anyway, I'm digressing, the point is Logan's just a little boy. He has blond hair, blue eyes, an adorable button nose and he also happens to have an extra chromosome which makes him EXTRA special.
So, this month I'll write some stories about Logan, but I'm also going to write about my beautiful little girls too, and my hubbie and my parents and grandparents and sibling and friends. I'll write about how all these people just love Logan for being Logan and how we all just accept him as a totally typical, absolutely perfect little boy.
Stay tuned!!! Hopefully I won't disappoint ;)

PS: Here's the highlight of my day so far, Logan just sat on the couch and read a whole book to Georgia. I didn't understand the whole story, but I heard, Jesus (Logan and Maddie are obsessed with Jesus which makes me feel SUPER bad about not taking them to church more often), Santa Claus, presents and "really cool." I guess it was a book about Christmas, whatever is was, Georgie was highly, highly entertained and giggled the throughout the whole story...happiness!!!!